When bullying takes place, a clear ‘NO’ is essential. There are many other ways in which people can reply to bullying. However, the prime motto of any intervention should always be the same:
- To stop bullying and change the bully’s behavior
- To make the victim safe
- To make clear to every other person that bullying is intolerable
- To learn lessons from the experience that can be applied in future
Support the Victim Who Is Bullied
The initial point for any interference should be to talk to a victim, who has been harassed or bullied, know what has happened and speak out against bullying:
- Take mistreatment seriously and avoid telling people to ‘just walk away’.
- Make time to listen to the victim coolly, using effective listening techniques.
- Avoid embarrassing the victim by taking steps which make them seem worthless or powerless.
- Agree on an action plan with his or her consent or ask them to join the anti-hate program.
- Help the target become stronger, for example by building up their confidence, highlighting their strong points and helping them to develop secure feelings.
Get Help Now!
When you or your loved one is being harassed or bullied, there are many actions to take to help solve the situation. Make sure you realize what violence is and what it is not, the symptoms of bullying, and how anti-bullying campaigns can help.
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